Wednesday, September 6
hmm...
i've seen many people getting girl or boyfriends at this stage of life...some say they are mature enough to handle these issues, but i think otherwise. and when their relationships fails, they 'breakdown'. actually, they should reflect, whether even getting into these things at such age are right.now, as a teen, our role is a student and studying, not dating. dating shouldn't be prioritised at this point of time, cos u weren't be handle the issues it would cause, not only emotionally but mentally, some even physically. it is not too wise to start all these things as we still need time to understand each other and understand what's the meaning of 'love'. c'mon, face the truth, WE ppl are not old and capable enough of handling and trying to understand something that need years, and years to be 'digested' slowly into ourselves.when u wanna get into relationships, think of one thing, marriage. many of u must be thinking i'm crazy, but its true. try imagine u and ur girl/boyfriend in 10 years time. would u guys be able to live and be happy together? if u say when u get into relationships that u dun expect to last, then ok, it'll not. now its just the matter of time before this relationship breaks. but don't blame anyone or feel sad, cos u should have known it earlier this would happen, sooner or after, if u dun think of the future. plan for whatever, whatever things u do, don't always be impromtu, unless its nessecary.what i was told by my church leaders was, wait until u're 18.i think even though waiting may be the most tiring and troublesome thing on Earth to do, something wonderful would happen after u do it. don't ever pluck an unripe banana, unless u wanna get stomachache. wait, wait for it to ripe before plucking it. what make a couple to be able to be together for very long is the love they understood during their journey of life. don't expect to understand love just over a night. compromising is one of the attributes of love. if u love someone, accept and compromise with his/her shortcomings and bad points. u may think i'm acting mature or something, but i'm just listing what i've learnt, seen, heard, and facts that normal human would have known by this point of life. i shall emphasis again, plan for the future for WHATEVER things u do. =)
